Help.

often times i find myself giving others advice. Not intentionally but it seems to end that way. Today at work i talked with a colleague about relationships and the feelings we encounter as girls, as woman. She explained a situation where her boyfriend, didn't seem like a boyfriend to her she saw him as a best friend, but him on the other hand wanted a relationship between them. Eventually it didn't last and they parted ways, on her account , not his. Now after 4 years she seems to have some kind of feelings as to whether or not there could have been one. Now i could be wrong but my words to her after hearing this was simply... baby girl, don't feel as if there should have been a "could-have-been" yall had a relationship and you felt like it wasn't what you wanted. you were right to feel this way and he was right in his own to feel the way he felt. But at the same time you can't force yourself, or rather its not healthy to see his wants as your needs. You didn't want to ruin a good friendship with a relationship that probably wouldn't have, and quite frankly didn't.... (PAUSE) sorry ladies and gents. just received a disturbing text that i need to address so I'll leave this as is for now. Do feel to comment.

Toodles,
Sweet Serenity